When someone swats your tail, stop twitching it...

If someone is antagonizing you, or being mean to you, or picking a fight with you, stop giving them something to cause trouble with. Think of it this way: if you are a cat, enjoying your day, and this kitten comes along and starts attacking your tail, you are probably twitching it/moving it in some way, shape, or form. So stop giving that kitten something interesting to cause trouble with!

If you don't know why the person is doing this, try to ask them why they are causing trouble, and either fix it if you want to do that and let others control your life, or tell them to accept you as you are and STOP!

I hope this little tidbit has helped you in some way. If you are having a specific problem, go ahead and leave me a comment on what it is, and I will try to help. Remember, this is a strict positive-only blog, so if you have nothing good to say, don't say it. Helpful criticism only, please (so to make that less confuzzling, you can criticize only if it is nice(i love your help, but maybe you could say more about the problem vs. your help needs to say more about the problem, 'cuz I don't understand what you are reffering to at all).)

Your life is your life, so don't let others get in the way of your personal way of living!